You will have to inscribe it, so it should
be bigger than a birthday candle, and you will also have to watch it burn down
to nothing, so it should not be a 24 hour light. A plain white 4"
altar candle will do nicely.
altar and decorate it with those things precious to you and to the one you
love. Using a rose thorn from a white rose bush, inscribe the words "All my
love come to me" 3 times on the candle. Place the inscribed candle in the
center of the altar and light it. For the entire time the candle burns, gaze
upon it and visualize your love coming to you in nakedness and beauty. When
the candle burns out, collect the wax puddle that remains, wrap it up with the
mementos from the altar and keep it in a safe place.
The result of this spell will not be earth
shattering love; but you will receive ALL the love that person has for you --
which may be less than, as much as, or more than the love you have for him.
Accept the degree of love you receive with grace and tenderness.
If at some future time you no longer wish to
receive that person's love,
dispose of the ritual remains
in a simple ceremonial way. Depending on your mood, the wax puddle can be
burned on a fire, buried at a
crossroads, thrown into running
water, mailed to him, ground to shavings and baked into a cake -- or whatever
you feel is appropriate. But it is your responsibility to dispose of it if you
no longer want to be loved in any degree by that person.